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Submissive
Souls That is a very hard question..and yet a easy one too, hard meaning that I really don't know what it means in reality as i have really and truly never experienced the true feelings of serving someone. Easy in the respect of knowing in my heart the things that have to be the most important, that have to matter the most to make it all work. I know it MUST begin with TRUST and LOYALTY and TRUTH, and it takes both parties to be HONEST and UNDERSTANDING, but I guess that doesn't answer the question does it? Being a sub means to me......having a person in my life that i feel totally comfortable with, someone whom I trust enough to give up my very all too, to trust every essence of my life and will with this person, too totally submit to them and willingly hand them the control of what i am and who i am. Being a sub means to me....total HONESTY between both parties involved, without that there is no foundation for a solid relationship, how can there ever be TRUST without HONESTY? I do not think there can be, as the two go hand in hand. Being a sub means to me....above all else the TRUTH must always be told, for without the TRUTH, you have nothing, nothing built on lies is very unstable and is guaranteed to fall, i believe the TRUTH is the most important part of a relationship between two people, it is the catalyst that will make or break any union. Being a sub means to me.....always UNDERSTANDING what my Mistress/Master wants/needs, always being there when i am what she wants to be able to soothe and comfort her in what ever way i can to do what ever she asks of me and to do it gladly. This above is what i think being a sub means to me...i would now like to explain the emotional reason that i wanted to be a sub...and maybe put some insight into why i feel the way i do. I have always had to be the one in control....all my life, as a child the only person who had any control over me was my mother, I come from a family of VERY dominating women, my mom wore the pants in the family and if any one of her 7 husbands didn't like it...well that was too bad, I was raised the same by her. In my 17 year marriage it was the same, my husband left everything to me to do...paying bills, talking to people, making every decision myself with absolutely no input from him, always being the one in control of whatever was going on in our lives, leaving me to deal with everything...including our divorce. I feel a deep need
and want to just turn it over to someone whom i feel that kind of trust
with, someone who will take it and take control, to make decisions, not
leave everything for me to decide. I love to do for
someone i care about, there is not much ..if anything that i will not
do to serve that person. I suppose all these things are connected in someway, and why i think, like i do, sometime i should analyze that, and see if i can figure it out. By Sheila A Master by [nutmeg]R Many have wondered what is a Master. A Master, to me, is someone who cares for their other half more than they care for themselves in truth. A Master puts His sub's needs and feelings ahead of His own. There are many things that make a Master but these are among the most important. A Master is of two minds, one His, the other His sub's. He knows the needs of His sub and does what He believes to be best for that sub. He spends many hours thinking of what is best for his sub and how it is best accomplished to meet both their needs. A Master does not thrive in the idea of punishing His sub when she/he has strayed from the path they were to follow. Instead, He feels the pain that He knows must be inflicted in order to stress the wrong that was done. Doing the punishing, only because He knows it is part of His responsiblitity, not something that He will derive pleasure from. A Master brings pleasure to His sub, knowing that He will recieve pleasure back many times greater than He has given to His sub. He shows the sub how to receive greater pleasure than the sub has ever before known and in doing so. receives greater pleasure for Himself from the action and reaction of His sub. A Master is not just
one who takes a sub and uses them up and then moves on to the next sub.
A Master chooses his sub wisely, knowing what he has to offer the sub
and how in return He receives the greatest gift A Master could ever receive
from His sub. These are the th
ings my Master has shown me and in return
has freely received my gift of Love, Respect and Submission.
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