Advice to a Slut

Advice to a Slut
by Lizzard Amazon
Preface by Robert G. Benson

Here I have excerpted "The Slut Manifesto" Part 3 - What to Do by Lizzard Amazon. (This is copyrighted by Lizzard Amazon). She gives 15 "rules" to help guide a woman into being comfortable with being a slut. Here I've listed and numbered them, and emphasized the key phrase for easier reference under the heading "Advice to Free Sluts...".

Below this section I've developed a list of rules relevant for slut-slaves, in large part based on her advice, under the heading "10 Rules for Slut-slaves".

Advice to Free Sluts...

[#1] Feminist or not, dyke or straight, the one thing we had better learn is PUSSY IS NEVER FREE. We don't really have sexual freedom; we have to fight for it.

[#2] All women should unite in defense of each others' right to fuck who ever they want. Don't diss your sister sluts! Defend each other from malicious gossip, no matter what your personal differences are.

[#3] Don't bargain for your rights, don't let someone else tell you who you are "allowed" to fuck.

[#4] Flaunt your sluttiness. Other people will just have to deal with it. If others know you fuck lots of people they should not bitch that they are "in love" with you and your behavior hurts them. You are a slut and you let everyone know it right from the start, so your lovers know what they are getting into!

[#5] Demand respect as a slut. Tell people it does not mean you fuck indiscriminatingly, and it does not mean you are a free target for gang rape! Sluts control access to their bodies and they are fighting against an ideology that makes them fair game for abuse. They should be respected for their courage and determination. Above all respect yourself for making your own decisions! Fuck for your own reasons, not someone else's!

[#6] Sluts fuck across cultures and cliques. People in different social groups get to know each other because you fucked them and kept an ongoing tie of friendship with them. You don't fuck someone just because they are considered acceptably cool by the standards of people who are just like you. Sluts might even fuck someone because they admire even one specific quality that person has. They might fuck just out of curiosity, going for that moment after sex when people let their barriers down and talk openly about themselves.

[#7] Exercise sexual power consciously. Enjoy the self confidence and thrill you get from being sexy. Flirt, seduce, and captivate people you like, and remember that flirting is part of the normal construction of social relationships. Flirt just for the sake of flirting; it doesn't mean you have to fuck anyone at all. In fact, all sluts know that you don't have to go all the way to be considered a slut. Making out with a different person every night counts as sluttiness in the world's eyes. Treat this flirting and making out like a fun sport. This doesn't mean you have to see other people as objects -- far from it. It can be sluts' liking and respect for other people that makes them fuck around in the first place.

[#8] Sluts can see themselves as sacred whores, who affirm life and pleasure. They can give and take -- they don't have to be used or users. They can be sex therapists and teach other people to be comfortable with their bodies and their sexuality. Sluts give other people a lot of pleasure, love and inspiration, and they should also be respected for that, not talked about like they are used, victimized, diseased, stupid, or hateful.

[#9] Remember that all sluts are different. They have different personalities and motivations, different reasons for being slutty. They may be "using" people for their own sexual pleasure, they can be into "conquest", but this does not necessarily make them evil. For some reason any time women are powerful and use that power, they are considered to be completely evil -- one reason that a lot of women are trapped in powerlessness! Women are human too, they are not naturally better or more peaceful or nicer than men. If some sluts happen to use their sexual power for things like revenge or hurting people then they are doing it for their own complex reasons, and not just because they are sluts.

[#1] Enjoy life in general. Lustily take part in what situations come your way! Sample everything interesting, including interesting people.

[#10] Exult in notoriety! At the least, you give people something to talk about. Whether they criticize your sluttiness or praise it, people that you fucked will inevitably meet each other and talk about you. Lots of this talk filters back to the slut eventually. She gets the benefit for seeing herself reflected in lots of different people's viewpoints. It gives her a certain kind of expanded perspective on her identity. It is also just plain fun to be a focus of gossip, even though people say some shitty things. You have to figure if you are causing a controversy among a bunch of sexist assholes you are probably doing something right, and ignore the things that are meant to hurt your feelings or put you in your place. The more people talk about your sluttiness, the more your actions will come to represent IDEAS. Your sluttiness will spark self-questioning and self-awareness among people who never even meet you. It will spark much-needed discussion and debate, especially between genders and generations.

[#11] Be an example to others. Sluts have a very marginal status in this society. Their brave flaunting of tradition can be an example to other people who want to be different or who are already shut out of mainstream society. Sluts' proud ownership of their own bodies sets a good example to others who secretly desire to do something, but are afraid to do it. Your life of emotional intensity will infuse new energy into other people's dreams.

[#12] Refuse to be the villainess of someone else's B-movie. Sluts evolve new structures for relationships and keep them alive and growing. Other people will see that sluts don't always die, like in the movies. They don't always get burned as witches or shot by jealous boyfriends.

[#13] Be a proud villainess of your own movie instead. Since you can't exactly avoid being villified, enjoy it thoroughly and refuse to be punished for it. Go ahead. Break up "happy" relationships rather than being the silent "other woman". Be a happy homewrecker! Couple-busting is at least as revolutionary as anything else that breaks up an institution of capitalist patriarchy. Not to mention you get to expose the hypocrisy of stupid couples who swear up and down that they will never ever fuck anyone else to prove how much they are dying to be owned by each other. Except these same people are all to willing to live a giant lie!

[#14] Insist on your right to define yourself. It is difficult to be a sexually radical woman and enjoy it while you have to defend yourself constantly. Don't be afraid to tell people to fuck off, shut up, and get out of your face if they are trying to convince you why you are wrong, stupid, need to start painting your nails, or should marry them and become a born again christian. You know what I mean!

[#15] PROTECT YOURSELF. This is the most important thing, so it's last on the list, the better to stick in your mind. Really go out and educate yourself about sexually transmitted diseases. Use condoms ALL THE TIME. Don't suck dick without condoms (use the kind without nasty-tasting lube) and don't lick pussy either without a latex or saran wrap barrier. You may not be likely to get HIV/ AIDS from pussy licking, for example, but you ARE likely to get herpes! Go to the public library or to Planned Parenthood, and read everything you can find about STDs. Practice safer sex!

10 Rules for Slut-slaves...

[#1] Accept the dark path within you. Understand that you are consciously choosing a path which many in society cannot respect or accept. They might think of you as corrupt, or immoral, or even wicked. You must begin by accepting the fact that -- in a sense -- you are. What you are doing is choosing the dark path within you. However, by looking within yourself and accepting your decision you also understand that within you there is also goodness, light, and beauty. Accepting the power the dark path has over you does not mean that you are a bad or evil person, merely that you are a complex person with many needs and motivations. Thus, enjoy the power the dark path has within you, for it gives you strength and vitality and illuminates your life as a slut-slave.

[#2] You are not free to determine how you express your sexuality. Your Master has that right. First and foremost you are a slave and so subservient to your Master's will. However, as a slave you are especially free to enjoy your sexuality. If you are a slut-slave it is because your Master desires it AND he believes that this is within you. Being a slut-slave thus gratifies both of your lusts. You should be pleased that your Master requires this of you.

[#3] Don't be embarassed in flaunting your sluttiness. How you dress and how you behave announces you are a slut. If you can enjoy fucking as a slut-slave you can learn to enjoy advertising yourself as a slut-slave. All you need is practice. If you feel embarassed, be sure to tell your Master.

[#4] Exercise your sexual power consciously. Enjoy the self confidence and thrill you get from being a slut and a slave. Flirt, seduce, and captivate people as your Master instructs you. Remember that these social relationships and experiences are valuble to you and to your Master.

[#5] Understand your sluttiness affirms life and pleasure. There are very profound reasons why being a slut is natural and may even be part of your destiny. Get in touch with these reasons and you can better enjoy being a slut rather than doubting your chosen path in life. Learn to lustily take part in what situations come your way! Life is an adventure! Don't be afraid to live it fully.

[#6] Respect and treasure the differences between us all. No one of us is ideal. Each of us expresses our differences in different ways. As a slave and a slut you can come very close to others' intimate secrets. Treasure what you learn about others, for they have shared themselves with you.

[#7] Exult in your notoriety! People that you fucked or who saw you in action will inevitably meet each other and talk about you. You get the benefit of seeing yourself reflected in lots of different people's viewpoints. It is also just plain fun to be a focus of gossip, whatever people say.

[#8] Try to be an example. Make your Master proud to own you. This requires you to show others your value as a slut and as a slave. This in turn makes your life emotionally intense and will serve as an inspiration for other people's dreams. Try to be unforgettable!

[#9] Look to your Master when you need. It is difficult to be a sexually radical woman and enjoy it if you have to defend yourself constantly. Your Master is there to not only control you but to safeguard you. At some time he will need to protect you from the behavior of others. If he doesn't know something bad is happening to you, it is your responsibility to tell him when it does.

[#10] PROTECT YOURSELF. This is the most important thing, so it's last on the list, the better to stick in your mind. Really go out and educate yourself about sexually transmitted diseases. Use condoms. Don't suck dick without condoms (use the kind without nasty-tasting lube) and don't lick pussy either without a latex or saran wrap barrier. You may not be likely to get HIV/ AIDS from pussy licking, for example, but you ARE likely to get herpes! Go to the public library or to Planned Parenthood, and read everything you can find about STDs. Practice safer sex!